Values Alignment Checklist

This is for your eyes only. Honest beats impressive.

Part A: name what matters to you. Part B: measure how aligned your life and relationships are with those values. There are no wrong answers — only honest ones.
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1 · Spiritual / Faith / Purpose

Word bank (optional): FaithPrayerServiceGratitudeWorshipMeaningIntegrityCalling

a) What do you believe gives your life meaning or purpose?

b) What role does faith or spirituality play in your week — honestly, not ideally?

c) One thing that would deepen this area in the next 12 months:

d) How aligned is your life with this value right now? 1–10

2 · Family / Connection

Word bank (optional): LoyaltyTimeTraditionHonestyPresenceForgivenessKidsCommunity

a) What does family mean to you — who counts?

b) How do you want people to feel after spending time with you?

c) One habit you'd change to show up better for family:

d) How aligned is your life with this value right now? 1–10

3 · Financial / Stewardship

Word bank (optional): GenerositySecurityDebt-freeProvisionTithingSavingSimple livingLegacy

a) What is money for, in your life?

b) What money habits are you proud of? Not proud of?

c) One financial goal for the next 12 months:

d) How aligned is your life with this value right now? 1–10

4 · Personal Growth / Health

Word bank (optional): DisciplineLearningExerciseRestSobrietyTherapyConsistencyCuriosity

a) Where are you growing right now — and where are you coasting?

b) What does "healthy" actually look like for you, realistically?

c) One change you've been avoiding but know you need:

d) How aligned is your life with this value right now? 1–10

5 · Lifestyle / Vision

Word bank (optional): AdventureStabilityTravelHomeWork-life balanceFunSlow morningsBuilding

a) Describe your ideal ordinary Tuesday five years from now.

b) What are you willing to trade to get there? What won't you trade?

c) One thing about your current lifestyle you'd protect at all costs:

d) How aligned is your life with this value right now? 1–10

Your Scorecard

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Family / Connection —
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Personal Growth / Health —
Lifestyle / Vision —
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Compare your lowest domain against your answers above — that gap is your work, not your worth.

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